Is it okay to have sex on the first date?

by Simone Kornfeld

You can do whatever you like. In the world of Smitten sex is not a moral issue, but one of preference. Also, the timing of the act isn’t loaded with meaning. Sometimes long-lasting relationships are initiated with a one-night stand. Sometimes it makes for nothing more than a wild story to share with friends. Basically, there is no formula to follow when it comes to fucking. Although as a self-realizing woman, you examine the motivations behind your actions. Are you rushing sex in the hopes of being “liked”? Do you feel pressured into the act? Are you having trouble communicating your boundaries? If you have a pattern of sex on the first date and you are not attracting the type of relationships that you want, then hold off next time. Get intimate gradually and see what breaking your pattern brings you. On the other hand, perhaps your habitual prudishness has grown tiresome and you’re craving sexual liberation. In that case, go for it! Jump right in and enjoy all the surprises and sensations unleashed through your second chakra. There is no right or wrong as long as your decision made from awareness.